tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24834383871974830462024-03-13T03:19:56.263-07:00unusual SUSPECTS...my life invokes a dozen imaginative tales~nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.comBlogger98125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-72600986844855152942013-02-28T00:14:00.001-08:002013-02-28T00:14:32.066-08:00Browse Inside The Modern Girl's Guide to Motherhood by Jane Buckingham<a href="http://www.harpercollins.com/browseinside/index.aspx?isbn13=9780060885342#.US8RwIZdjbE.blogger">Browse Inside The Modern Girl's Guide to Motherhood by Jane Buckingham</a>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-47087106547824447522012-07-20T01:37:00.001-07:002012-07-20T01:41:37.060-07:00Bistro Qaseh n ibu mengandung~Assalammualaikum dan Salam Ramadhan...<br />
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Alhamdulillah, tak sangka esok kita akan menemui 1 Ramadhan.. Syukur kita masih di beri kesempatan untuk bernafas lagi di bulan yang pahala dilipat gandakan...<br />
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Oleh itu seperti yang dijanjikan, hari ni saya pun 'dating' dengan seorang ibu mengandung nih.. Teringin benar makan ikan bakar, tak tau nak cari kat mana. Pusing punya pusing jumpa satu kedai di syeksen 13 nih.. Punyalah ramai orang padahal kat situ bukan satu2nya kedai makan yang ada, banyak lagi kedai makan yang lain... Perasaan ingin tahu yang menebal, kami pun pergi makan kat sana.. Makanan memang banyak pilihan, memang sedap... Terbaik! Mak buyung pun dapat makan ikan bakar dia... ^_^<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">yang tanda 'love' tu apa yang saya rasa sedap... ketam lemak cili api dengan air Qaseh.. nyum2...</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"> </span>Lokasi restoran ni bertempat di Jalan Boling Padang 13F/F, Syeksen 13, Shah Alam... Ada disediakan Ramadhan Buffet sempena bulan puasa ni, dengan 50 jenis hidangan! Nak cuba? Silalah...</div>
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Wassalam...</div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-38016292860918356712012-07-04T09:51:00.000-07:002012-07-04T09:56:08.311-07:00Rindu pada si Gambang... Assalammualaikum...
Entry kali ni saya ingin memperkenalkan irama muzik kegemaran saya iaitu 'GAMELAN'!!!! Dulu waktu di universiti saya pernah bermain gamelan untuk majlis konvokesyen U. Macam tak percaya. Walaubagaimanapun, saya rasa teruja dan sangat, sangat menikmati kenangan waktu tu... Seronok tau main muzik tradisional yang bernama gamelan ni...
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Mari saya perkenalkan encik Gambang~ Waktu mula-mula saya diperkenalkan dengan encik Gambang ni saya terkejut... Si 'gemuk' ni ke yang saya kena main (oh, tidak)... Nak angkatnya punyala berat, wajib angkat berdua... Walaupun gemuk, dia tak banyak ragam ok. Jarang mengeluarkan bunyi2 pelik macam si bonang dan sarun. Dan bunyinya adalah yang paling rendah antara alat2 gamelan yang lain. Yelah orang lain semua diperbuat daripada besi, dia jer daripada kayu. Kayu pun bukan sebarang kayu tau, kayu yang keras2 jer contohnya cengal (betul ke? huhu.. hentam...)... Dan dia ada dua pemukul, pemukul dia sebenarnya bulat pipih. Yang menampakkan gemuk sebab dia dililit dengan kain...<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Alat gamelan kesayangan saya... Encik Gambang~ Rindunyer kat G~ huhu.. Dulu selalu duk usap2 dia ni... (sebenarnya nak bersihkan habuk dan nak bagi dia nampak berkilat... Da namanya sayang kan... =).. )</span></div>
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Cara nak main dia pukullah dengan 2 alat pemukul tadi... Ada 20 batang kayu yang boleh kita pukul... Tapi kenalah pukul dengan ikut note muzik jangan main langgar jer... Dan seingat saya, note dia ikut nombor bukannya huruf macam kita main keyboard tu... (sebab sekolah rendah dulu saya main keyboard =)... rindunya zaman belajar...)<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Kenangan bersama incik Gambang... G~ I miss U soooo much... :'(</span></div>
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Oh ye, lagu pertama yang saya belajar adalah lagu timang burung (<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YaObro2T5M8">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YaObro2T5M8</a>.. boleh klik kalau berminat nak dengar timang burung tu bunyinya macam mana)... Dan menurut sejarah ianya adalah lagu yang hanya dimainkan di istana... (waktu zaman dulu2 la, sebab gamelan tu pun alat muzik istana... orang biasa macam tok moyang kita mana mampu nak pergi beli... huhu...).. Tapi sekarang ianya dimainkan dalam majlis2 formal... Contohnya.... dalam konvokesyen~ =) </div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Di atas ni adalah alat gamelan yang lain... Saya upload dari internet... Baru sedar saya ambil gambar encik gambang seorang saja.. huhu... Ada bonang, sarun, gong dan gendang.. kepada sesiapa yang nak tambah keterangan mengenai alat2 gamelan kegemaran korang dialu-alukan...</span></div>
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Itu saja untuk entry kali ni... Hanya nak ekpresikan rindu nak main gamelan... Dah nak masuk 4 tahun kot saya tak main gamelan... Hilang dah segala kemahiran2 yang ada...</div>
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Wassalam...</div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-15635493486458993682012-06-24T02:36:00.001-07:002012-06-24T02:36:15.383-07:00Park Ji yun: I Do<iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/jcdW-pR8RHQ" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-56614158019873396692012-06-15T07:57:00.001-07:002012-06-15T07:57:59.627-07:00Astrid tentang rasa<span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">aku tersesat menuju hatimu</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">beri aku jalan yang indah</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">izinkanku lepas penatku</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">tuk sejenak lelap di bahumu</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">reff:</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">dapatkah selamanya kita bersama</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">menyatukan perasaan kau dan aku</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">semoga cinta kita kekal abadi</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">sesampainya akhir nanti selamanya</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">tentang cinta yang datang perlahan</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">membuatku takut kehilangan</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">kau titipkan cahaya terang</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">tak padam didera goda dan masa</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">repeat reff [2x]</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">dapatkah selamanya kita bersama</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;" /><span style="background-color: #ebebeb; color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">menyatukan perasaan kau dan aku</span><br style="background-color: #ebebeb; 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Alhamdulillah, saya memasuki fasa baru dalam kehidupan ini sbg tunangan org.. Perasaan skrg ni, hmm mcm roller-coaster senang gembira dan senang sedih juga.. Tak tahu macam mana nak cerita..<br />
Harapan semoga jodoh ini berkekalan dunia akhirat.. Tapi kita tak boleh nak menduga rintangan yang bakal di hadapi pada masa akan datang.. Cuma berusaha, berdoa dan bertawakkal yang menjadi teman untuk mengharunginya...<br />
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mode: br balik kerja malam dan tiada org di rumah, semalam sblm pergi kerja, tak sempat jumpa dgn adik sbb dia balik kerja lewat.. rasa sunyi menyelubungi jiwa... ='(nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-56716288507418719702012-05-21T05:18:00.002-07:002012-05-21T05:18:48.687-07:00Personaliti report saya... =)<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 14px; margin-left: 10px;">Custom Keirsey Temperament Report for: <strong>husna </strong></span><br />
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<strong>Idealists</strong>, as a temperament, are passionately concerned with personal growth and development. Idealists strive to discover who they are and how they can become their best possible self -- always this quest for self-knowledge and self-improvement drives their imagination. And they want to help others make the journey. Idealists are naturally drawn to working with people, and whether in education or counseling, in social services or personnel work, in journalism or the ministry, they are gifted at helping others find their way in life, often inspiring them to grow as individuals and to fulfill their potentials.</div>
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Idealists are sure that friendly cooperation is the best way for people to achieve their goals. Conflict and confrontation upset them because they seem to put up angry barriers between people. Idealists dream of creating harmonious, even caring personal relations, and they have a unique talent for helping people get along with each other and work together for the good of all. Such interpersonal harmony might be a romantic ideal, but then Idealists are incurable romantics who prefer to focus on what might be, rather than what is. The real, practical world is only a starting place for Idealists; they believe that life is filled with possibilities waiting to be realized, rich with meanings calling out to be understood. This idea of a mystical or spiritual dimension to life, the "not visible" or the "not yet" that can only be known through intuition or by a leap of faith, is far more important to Idealists than the world of material things.</div>
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Highly ethical in their actions, Idealists hold themselves to a strict standard of personal integrity. They must be true to themselves and to others, and they can be quite hard on themselves when they are dishonest, or when they are false or insincere. More often, however, Idealists are the very soul of kindness. Particularly in their personal relationships, Idealists are without question filled with love and good will. They believe in giving of themselves to help others; they cherish a few warm, sensitive friendships; they strive for a special rapport with their children; and in marriage they wish to find a "soulmate," someone with whom they can bond emotionally and spiritually, sharing their deepest feelings and their complex inner worlds.</div>
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Idealists are relatively rare, making up no more than 15 to 20 percent of the population. But their ability to inspire people with their enthusiasm and their idealism has given them influence far beyond their numbers.</div>
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<strong>Idealists at Work</strong><br />
Idealists, as a temperament, are passionately concerned with personal growth and development. They are naturally drawn to working with people and are gifted with helping others find their way in life, often inspiring them to grow as individuals and to fulfill their potential both on, and off, the job.</div>
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Your attention is naturally drawn to the individual and collective needs, desires, and experiences of people in your environment. In your ideal job, you would be able to use your inner beliefs as a guide for empowering others. Though you are comfortable with leadership, you don’t like arbitrary hierarchies. You care deeply about people as people, and often feel that maintaining official role boundaries interferes unnecessarily with both communication and progress.</div>
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</tbody></table>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-53001994296568408662012-02-28T20:58:00.002-08:002012-02-28T21:06:20.849-08:00That Man<div style="text-align: left;">Assalammualaikum..</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/MCwAF8zKgeM" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="" style="font-size: 100%; "></iframe></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Saya rindu nak jadi stalker~ Biasa tgk dr jauh je, skrg dah ader depan mata.. Apa2 yang curious boleh trs tanya jer.. Perasaannya-bagaikan mimpi.. =)</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-29136881370709007742012-02-16T07:02:00.000-08:002012-02-16T07:27:25.571-08:00Re-studyAssalammualaikum...<div><br /></div><div><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-FbX6tjqSX4I/Tz0bH-7yT-I/AAAAAAAAAXU/HBSIiVojeuM/s1600/IMAG0598.jpg"><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-FbX6tjqSX4I/Tz0bH-7yT-I/AAAAAAAAAXU/HBSIiVojeuM/s320/IMAG0598.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5709749726542450658" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px; " /></a><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre; "> Tetiba jer, tajuk re-study tapi ada gambar baby tengah tidur.. </span>Cumel kan baby ni.. Hmm, malam semalam menjaga si kenit ni. Meragam tak habis2... Stress betul, semua tak kena. Jadi mandikan dia, bagi susu, bernasyid sikit, pastu urut2 dgn baby lotion barulah dia nak tidur. Huhu... Bila dah tidur, rasa sunyi pula. Rindu bunyi merengek dia.. Ambil gambar dia tidur, sebab takut bila dia dah bangun, meragam balik, rindu dengan muka cumel dia waktu tidur.. hahaha..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre; "> </span>Mesti ada yang tertanya benda apa kat hidung dia tu? Sebenarnya ni baby pramatang. Bagi memastikan pertambahan berat badan yang optimum, kita kena mengurangkan tenaga yang digunakan oleh baby. Menghisap susu adalah salah satu aktiviti yang banyak gunakan tenaga. Jadi, kita kena masukkan tiub makanan tu untuk mengurangkan tenaga yang digunakan. Lagi satu, baby ni letak dalam inkubator dengan suhu persekitaran yang tertentu bagi mengurangkan tenaga yang digunakan untuk mengekalkan suhu badan. Duduk dalam inkubator tak perlu berbalut. Cukup dengan pakai pampers je.. (Apa yang tertulis ni adalah apa yang selalu saya terangkan pada parents)..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre; "> </span>Jadi jururawat tak semudah yang saya sangkakan. Saya kena menghadapi berbagai soalan sama ada logik ataupun tak logik daripada pesakit dan ahli keluarga mereka. Kadangkala soalan itu diluar pengetahuan yang saya miliki. Kesimpulan yang saya dapat, walaupun dah ada pengalaman bekerja, tapi banyak lagi yang saya tak tahu. Memang seumur hidup punya proses pembelajaran. Jadi saya terfikir untuk belajar balik (re-study). Tapi restudy disini bukanlah bermaksud kena mohon masuk universiti atau kolej. Cukup sekadar mengulangkaji dan mengimbas apa yang dipelajari. Mungkin boleh buat group study dengan rakan-rakan yang lain..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre; "> </span>Sambil tunggu si cumel ni bangun, saya membuat outline topik yang perlu di cover. Jadi, jom kita belajar sama2 lepas ni... ^_^</div><div><br /></div><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-uNZoITp3jD0/Tz0fM5LQTQI/AAAAAAAAAXg/SFfIVS5MNdg/s1600/IMAG0599.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-uNZoITp3jD0/Tz0fM5LQTQI/AAAAAAAAAXg/SFfIVS5MNdg/s320/IMAG0599.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5709754208942574850" /></a><br />Wassalam..nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-41867460771045672822012-02-13T07:34:00.000-08:002012-02-13T07:37:48.664-08:00Berjalan tanpa Henti..<h3 style="font-size: 20px; font-family: verdana; background-color: rgb(180, 213, 245); ">Assalammualaikum...</h3><div>Hari ini saya terasa sangat penat.. Hmm.. Tak boleh nak diungkapkan di blog ini.. Layan blues sambil layan lagu ni..</div><h3 style="font-size: 20px; font-family: verdana; background-color: rgb(180, 213, 245); "><br /></h3><h3 style="font-size: 20px; font-family: verdana; background-color: rgb(180, 213, 245); ">Berjalan Tanpa Henti</h3><div class="attr" style="border-left-width: 4px; border-left-style: solid; border-left-color: rgb(102, 153, 204); font-size: 12px; margin-top: 5px; padding-left: 7px; font-family: verdana; background-color: rgb(180, 213, 245); ">Album : Berjalan Tanpa Henti<br />Munsyid : Devotees<br />http://liriknasyid.com</div><br style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 11px; background-color: rgb(180, 213, 245); "><br style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 11px; background-color: rgb(180, 213, 245); "><div class="text" style="font-size: 15px; font-family: verdana; background-color: rgb(180, 213, 245); ">Bagaikan jauh jalan yang kutempuh<br />Langkah demi langkah akan kugagah<br />Hari demi hari berjalan tanpa henti<br />Yakinku ada sinar yang menentu<br />Kalau dah bertemu arah<br />Yakin penuh pasrah<br />PadaNya Yang Kuasa dikau berserah<br />Jika kau rebah jika kau kalah<br />Bersaksilah rahmatNya akan terserlah<br />Segala kepahitan segala keperitan<br />Terima bagai penghapus dosa<br />Malang yang menimpa duka yang melara<br />Mungkin di baliknya ada bahagia<br />Jangan jangan berputus asa<br />Dari rahmat Yang Maha Esa<br />Jangan jangan kita lupa<br />Ujian lumrahnya dunia</div><br class="Apple-interchange-newline"><br /><br /><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/F53vBo37juQ" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-59817104911074714892012-02-12T09:18:00.000-08:002012-02-12T09:21:05.826-08:00wedding plannerwedding plan.. (Layan Sajer)<br /><br />oleh Nurul Husna Mohd Sahabudin pada pada 5hb Januari 2010 pukul 1.08 pagi ·<div><br />Rules: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with d wedding plan!=) At the end, choose d people u want to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know about u!=)<br /><br />(To do this, go to “notes” under tabs on your profile page, paste these instructions in the body of the note, type your wedding plan, tag d people (in the right hand corner of the app) then click publish.)<br /><br />1. how old are you?<br />becoming 23<br /><br />2. are you single?<br />Single, Available.<br /><br />3. at what age do you think you'll get married?<br />dunno yet. still in debating. i prefer 27.<br /><br />4. do you think you'll marrying the person you are with now?<br />who? looking around.. may Allah ease may path.<br /><br />5. if not, who do you want to marry?<br />someone who can guide me to the heaven's path.. Amiinn..<br /><br />6. who will be your bridesmaid & bestman?<br />saper nak? peluang terbuka.. hehe<br /><br />7. do you want a garden/beach or traditional wedding?<br />walimatul urus yg sederhana, ringkas dan terkesan di hati ini..<br /><br />8. where do you plan to go on honeymoon?<br />dunno<br /><br />9. how many guests do you think you'll invite?<br />hmm.. depend on the parents of both side..<br /><br />10. will that include your exes?<br />dont have ex.<br /><br />11. how many layers of cake do you want?<br />err, cupcake bley d potong ek?<br /><br />12. when do you want to get married, morning or evening?<br />morning, when the weather is fine..<br /><br />13. name the song/tune you'd like to play at your wedding.<br />aper2 lagu yg sedap di dengar..<br /><br />14. ur wedding colour theme?<br />pink! no compromising..<br /><br />15. do you prefer fine dining or just normal spoon&fork?knife?<br />pakai tgn.. ader enzyme baik utk p'hadaman.. hikhik..<br /><br />16. champagne or red wine?<br />astaghfirullah.. HARAM<br /><br />17. honeymoon right after the wedding or days after the wedding?<br />dunno<br /><br />18. money or household items?<br />depends<br /><br />19. how many kids would you like to have?<br />lagi ramai lagi bagus.. hehe.. harap2 dpt husband yg suker bdk2 jgk.. amiinn.<br /><br />20. will you record your honeymoon in DVD/CD?<br />dunno<br /><br />21. ur dream present fr0m ur future husband<br />honesty, loyalty and stairway to heaven.. =)<br /><br />22. whose wedding plan would you like to know next<br />those who has been tagged... </div><div><br /></div><div>ni namanyer x der keje mengcopy paste nota dr fb... huhu.. </div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">mode: lama x main tag m'tag ni... </div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-75966533526770845892012-02-11T19:20:00.000-08:002012-02-11T19:40:31.761-08:00Di lema~Assalammualaikum...<div><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify; "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre; "> </span>Hmm.. Hanya utk meluahkan ketegangan dalam hati ni. Saya tak nak putus sahabat dgn seorang yang saya anggap macam abang sendiri... Jadi, saya kena hantar satu mesej yang menjelaskan perkara sebenar, dan bukan berniat untuk melukakan hatinya... Kena minta maaf juga. Tapi saya tak tahu macam mana nak susun ayat tu.. Jadi orang dewasa ni susah, budi bahasa kena jaga, tak boleh nak langgar...</div><div style="text-align: justify; "><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify; "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>mode: tgh rindu kat si kecil Darwish... raya cina aritu jumpa dia.. tapi dia da tak ingat kat saya.. mana taknye, kali terakhir jumpa masih bertatih lagi.. tup2.. da pandai berlari pun.. Lagi pun x boleh bawa dia tinggal dgn saya, anak orang lain tu.. tapi pengalaman sebulan dua jaga dia dengan ibu dia memang pengalaman berharga.. kalau nak ada family, perlukan kestabilan.. kalau tak kesian kat anak2 kecil ni... hidup tak terurus... hmm.. mampukah saya nak berfamily ni? usaha, doa & tawakkal~</div><div style="text-align: justify; "><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify; "><br /></div><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-lg3Kq_xTcx8/TzcytJGtDnI/AAAAAAAAAXI/RiwkuSd6KuU/s1600/IMAG0064.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-lg3Kq_xTcx8/TzcytJGtDnI/AAAAAAAAAXI/RiwkuSd6KuU/s320/IMAG0064.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5708086803834932850" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-53848752419479619492012-02-06T06:38:00.000-08:002012-02-06T07:04:01.898-08:00Cinta sang Ratu~Assalammualaikum...<div><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Jeng, jeng, jeng... Gempak tak tajuk entry hari ni. Siapa2 yang dah tau perangai saya mesti buat muka<img src="http://img225.imageshack.us/img225/882/14cz57n.gif" alt="SahabatMusleem" />... Dalam hati cakap tak gempak pun, ni tajuk novel jer... Yup, betul... Tajuk novel yang baru saja saya habis baca selepas novel Bagaikan Puteri.. Hmm.. Pasni nak cari novel bertajuk Hijab Sang Pecinta.. =D</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Best dan menarik sangat novel Cinta sang Ratu ni.. Mengajar saya cinta kerana Allah.. Maksudnya tak kira bagaimana pun keadaan orang di sekeliling kita, asalkan mereka beriman kepada Allah, kita perlu mengasihi mereka semua.. Hmm... Walaupun kita tak mampu membahagiakan semua orang di sekeliling kita, tapi kita dapat mendoakan kebahagiaan mereka..</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Pandai betul penulis Ramlee Awang Murshid ni.. Saya rasa ramai gadis yang dah terpikat dengan kesantunan dan ketinggian ahklak Laksamana Sunan.. Izinkan saya meng'copy paste'kan mushaf yang Laksamana Sunan nukilkan buat isterinya yang tersayang, Ratna... Ehem:</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="http://img193.imageshack.us/img193/9324/em303.gif" alt="Click Me~" /> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Cinta Sang Ratu</div><div style="text-align: center;">Laksana langit mencengkam purnama,</div><div style="text-align: center;">ibarat mutiara di lautan biru,</div><div style="text-align: center;">saujana mata memandang,</div><div style="text-align: center;">seluas langit terbentang.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Tatkala cinta berbisik, suaranya memuji TUHAN,</div><div style="text-align: center;">pabila rindu terusik, rasulnya jadi pilihan.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Sampai masanya cinta jadi taruhan,</div><div style="text-align: center;">Sang Ratu menjadi impian...</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>p/s: so sweet kan...</span><img src="http://img15.imageshack.us/img15/9647/70259435.gif" alt="SahabatMusleem" style="text-align: left; " /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span><br /></span></div><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/YM8eRQjh4rc" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">wassalam... ^_^v</div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-60989610312896157342012-02-03T00:20:00.000-08:002012-02-03T01:56:26.193-08:00Muhasabah: Bermanis muka<div style="text-align: center;"><span><u><br /></u></span></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Assalammualaikum...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="http://img30.imageshack.us/img30/1228/f26580f5.gif" alt="SahabatMusleem" /> </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Alhamdulillah, tiada kata seagung kata puji bagi Allah Tuhan sekelian alam. Tuhan yang melimpahkan rahmat bagi sekian manusia di alam ini. Entri kali ini sekadar berkongsi muhasabah diri. Diri yang tak terlepas daripada melakukan kesalahan dan dosa. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Pernahkah di antara kita yang melakukan sesuatu tindakan yang kurang wajar dan tempiasnya perbuatan kita itu bukan pada diri kita saja malahan orang2 tersayang di sekeliling kita jua. Walau di hambat seribu penyesalan, tidak berguna malahan perbuatan itu sering menghantui hidup kita.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Saya berhadapan dengan pelajar sekolah menengah pada hari ini. Pelajar yang bagaimana, terpulang pada pembaca untuk menafsirkannya. Sememangnya dalam usia seperti itu, kita kebiasaannya bertindak mengikut emosi tanpa menyelidiki rasional di sebalik perbuatan kita. Jika ditegah, makin di buat; jika dikongkong, akan merusuh; jika disuruh, akan diingkar... Astaghfirullah... </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Saya tak tahu cara yang lembut untuk menegur pelajar ini. Kebiadapan yang luar biasa mencalar kesabaran sekaligus menjolok keegoan saya. Tetapi saya sedar, saya pun belum dewasa sepenuhnya; masih pra-matang, perlu banyak belajar psikologi manusia... Api dengan minyak tanah akan meletup! Jadi saya kena jadi selembut air yang memadamkan api... Susah, tapi kena teruskan berusaha.. Kerana sebagai manusia saya sayangkan pelajar tersebut. Akibat perbuatan yang dilakukannya akan memalukan keluarga. Saya tak mahu dia menyesal seumur hidup. Saya mahu dia belajar dari kesilapan orang lain, kerana ianya dah terlambat kalau dia belajar dari kesilapannya sendiri..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Pernahkah kita berhadapan dalam situasi tegang. Situasi di mana kita tahu seseorang itu bencikan kita dan berhasad dengki pada kita. Tak tahu apa silap kita tapi dia terus menerus memusuhi kita dan cuba menjatuhkan kita. Penat rasanya untuk berhadapan dengan situasi ini. Sebagai manusia biasa kita tak dapat menghindari pemikiran negatif terhadap orang tu... Kalau ikutkan orang yang baling batu kat kita, kita nak balas baling bulldozer ke.. Rasa sakit hati sangat... Kadang2 tu rasa berdendam... Geram!!! <img src="http://img39.imageshack.us/img39/2561/103p.gif" alt="Click Me~" style="text-align: left; " /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Tapi sabarlah wahai hati, Tuhan sentiasa bersama-sama orang yang ditindas. Doakan dia semoga suatu hari nanti terbuka hatinya untuk menjadi kawan baik kita. Berbaik sangka pada mereka dan layanlah mereka dengan cara yang baik. Pilihlah untuk memaafkan mereka jangan berdendam dengan mereka. Balas kejahatan dengan kebaikan. Balas batu dengan memberi bunga. Semoga kesabaran dan sikap positif kita dapat melembutkan hati mereka... (InsyaAllah) Manalah tahu, kita pun bersalah juga...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Jom baca kisah ni, Best...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span><span><span style="text-align: left; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">BERMANIS MUKA...@ SWEET </span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="text-align: left; display: inline; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">FACE ^^</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="text-align: left; display: inline; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px; ">Abu Yazid Al Busthami, pelopor sufi, pada suatu hari pernah didatangi seorang lelaki </span><span style="line-height: 14px; ">yang </span><span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">wajahnya kusam dan keningnya selalu berkerut. Dengan murung lelaki itu mengadu,</span></div></span></span><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span><br /></span></div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px; ">'Tuan Guru, sepanjang hidup saya, rasanya tak</span> <span style="line-height: 14px; ">pernah lepas saya beribadah kepada Allah. </span><span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">Orang lain sudah lelap, saya masih bermunajat. Isteri saya belum bangun, saya </span><span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">sudah </span><span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">mengaji. </span><span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">Saya juga bukan pemalas yang enggan mencari rezeki. Tetapi mengapa saya </span><span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">selalu malang </span><span style="line-height: 14px; ">dan kehidupan saya penuh kesulitan?'</span></div></span></div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px;"><br /></span></div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px; ">Sang Guru menjawab sederhana, </span><span style="line-height: 14px; ">'Perbaiki penampilanmu dan ubahlah riak mukamu. </span><span style="line-height: 14px; ">Kau tahu, Rasulullah SAW adalah penduduk dunia yang miskin namun wajahnya tak pernah </span><span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">keruh dan selalu ceria.</span></div></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px; font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px; font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span><br /></span></div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px; ">Sebab menurut Rasulullah SAW,</span></div></span></div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px;"><br /></span></div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px; ">salah satu tanda penghuni neraka ialah muka masam yang membuat orang curiga kepadanya.</span></div></span></div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px;"><br /></span></div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px; ">Lelaki itu tertunduk. Ia pun berjanji akan memperbaiki</span> <span style="line-height: 14px; ">penampilannya.Mulai hari itu, wajahnya sentiasa berseri. Setiap kesedihan diterima dengan sabar, tanpa mengeluh.</span></div></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span><span style="line-height: 14px; "><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span><span style="line-height: 14px; "><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span><span style="line-height: 14px; "><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span><span style="line-height: 14px; ">Alhamdullilah sesudah itu ia tak pernah datang lagi </span></span></span><span style="line-height: 14px; font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">untuk berkeluh kesah. Keserasian </span><span style="line-height: 14px; font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">selalu </span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">dijaga. Sikapnya ramah,wajahnya sentiasa menguntum senyum bersahabat. Riak </span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">mukanya </span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">berseri.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span><br /></span></span></div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span><br /></span></div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="line-height: 14px; ">Tak heran jika Imam Hasan Al Basri berpendapat, awal keberhasilan suatu </span><span style="line-height: 14px; ">pekerjaan adalah air muka yang ramah dan penuh senyum. Bahkan Rasulullah SAW </span><span style="line-height: 14px; ">menegaskan, senyum adalah sedekah paling murah tetapi paling besar </span><span style="line-height: 14px; ">pahalanya.</span></div></span></div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-rT5_0YTLveQ/TyumWA2E8gI/AAAAAAAAAW8/s39bnnB5pzE/s320/395795_352214881463263_206490422702377_1330617_1191548226_n.jpg" /> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Moga Allah memberikan ketenangan buat hati ini:</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px; text-align: left; ">Ya Allah, Ya Tuhanku.. Janganlah Engkau memesongkan hati kami setelah Engkau memberi petunjuk kepada kami. Dan kurniakanlah kami rahmat dari sisi-Mu. Sesungguhnya Engkaulah Tuhan yang sangat banyak pemberianNya.</span></div><span style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">(Surah Al-Imran:8)</span><div><span style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><br /></span></span></div></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-25418497822076110012012-01-31T08:49:00.000-08:002012-01-31T09:44:19.185-08:00Baitul Muslim untukku~<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-8lRLCMJR4r4/Tygm6MS75CI/AAAAAAAAAWw/s1edMmeparY/s1600/332148497_17e2e1b050.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 210px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-8lRLCMJR4r4/Tygm6MS75CI/AAAAAAAAAWw/s1edMmeparY/s320/332148497_17e2e1b050.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703851709239649314" /></a><br /><p style="text-align: justify;line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Assalammualaikum...</p><p style="text-align: justify;line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></p><p style="text-align: justify;line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Sejak akhir-akhir ni, bertambah-tambah jemputan kenduri kahwin rakan-rakan yang saya terima. Seronok mendengar khabar dari rakan-rakan yang bakal meniti hari bahagia ni. Tapi mesti ada yang bertanya, cik Husna bila lagi. Saya hanya dengan jawapan skema, sebuah senyuman saja.</p><p style="text-align: justify;line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Sukar untuk saya menjelaskan tanggapan saya pada perkahwinan. Tapi boleh dipendekkan kepada saya lebih berfikir kepada BESARNYA tanggungjawab yang perlu di tanggung. Dapat hidup bersama dengan kekasih pilihan, dialah sahabat, dialah teman memang anugerah tak ternilai olehNya. Alhamdulillah, jika Allah mengizinkannya.. Tapi saya tak yakin dapat melaluinya, dalam kegembiraan terpalit kebimbangan yang tak bertepi.. Saya rasa saya kekurangan vitamin 'positif' dalam diri..</p><p style="text-align: justify;line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Semua mahkluk yang bernyawa pasti akan mati. Dan kita tak tahu bila kita akan pergi buat selamanya. Justeru selagi saya masih hidup, saya kena menjalani kehidupan hari ini dengan kegembiraan. Seolah-olah hari ini adalah 'the best in my life'. Dan apabila satu hari nanti saya berpeluang menjadi halal bagi seseorang, saya hendaklah menggalas tanggungjawab tersebut dengan gembira maka barulah memperoleh ketenangan. Tapi gembira jer tak cukup, kena ada ilmu dan persediaan. Perlu ada kesabaran dan kepercayaan. Keikhlasan; semuanya kerana Allah dan meraih keredhaanNya.</p><p style="text-align: justify;line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Jodoh ada atau tiada...adalah berkaitan dengan masa. Bersabarlah wahai hati, ada orang jodohnya cepat, ada orang jodohnya lambat. Tak kisah umur 25 tahun mahupun 35 tahun, yang paling penting ianya bahagia berkekalan. Berkahwin memang sunnah Nabi, tapi jika kita tidak mampu menggalas amanah itu dengan sempurna pasti menambah dosa. Berkahwin itu sepatutnya menjadi landasan seseorang insan meraih ketenangan dan mengukuhkan keimanan. Bukannya menambah kekusutan. </p><p style="text-align: justify;line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Saya harap satu hari nanti jika saya berkahwin adalah kerana Allah, bukan kerana kebiasaan dan ikutkan perasaan. Membina baitul muslim dengan elemen-elemen mawaddah, sakinah wa rahmah. Kita tidak perlu merisaukan jodoh, bila tiba masanya ia akan datang menjemput tetapi kita perlu membuka jalan supaya jemputan jodoh itu mudah sampai dan tidak terhalang. Persoalannya: Macam mana nak buka jalan kepada jodoh yang berkat lagi di redhaiNya? Hmmm...</p><p style="line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></p><p style="line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></p><p style="line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span >Sabda baginda yang bermaksud:</span></p><p style="line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span >“Janganlah mengahwini<a target="_blank" title=" wanita" href="http://kepuncakmahligai.com/" style="text-decoration: none; "> wanita</a>-wanita kerana kecantikan. Mungkin kecantikan itu memburukkan hidup. Jangan mengahwini mereka kerana harta, mungkin harta itu menyebabkan kezaliman mereka. Tetapi kahwinilah mereka atas dasar agama. Seorang sahaya yang hitam, berbibir tebal yang beragama adalah lebih baik.</span></p><p style="line-height: 1.5; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.25em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: 'Lucida Grande', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span >(Diriwayatkan oleh Ibn Majah)</span></p>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-76076658487128680592012-01-15T03:41:00.000-08:002012-01-15T03:43:26.065-08:00Definitely want to timeout!<div class="headline_area" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; 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"><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-837" title="ProductiveMuslim Time Out" src="http://www.productivemuslim.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/timeout-300x235.jpg" alt="ProductiveMuslim Time Out" width="300" height="235" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 1.5em; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; float: left; " />Over the past week, I took 2 days “time-out” time, away from everything to really take a step back from the tornado of life and critically decide how to move forward.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">It was such a beneficial experience, that I couldn’t wait to tell the world about it, and I published the 5 minute <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ks0k33af0eg&feature=player_embedded" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Friday weekly naseeha</a>regarding this experience. This post is truly to elaborate on this exercise so that you can make the most of Time-out!</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">What is it?</strong><br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">Time-out or also known as “solitude” is a simple activity of withdrawing yourself from day to day social circles for some time on your own. Sometimes timeout is an obligation upon the person, if the people in his/her social circle are of those who lead him/her to sins or away from the pleasure of Allah. Other times, it’s simply the first step to a life of constant self-development.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><span id="more-244" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "></span></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Why?</strong><br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">My first reply to “Why would you need to sit on your own?” is “Why wouldn’t you?”. It’s amazing how our “constantly plugged, always online, always with people” lifestyle has taken away one of the oldest tradition in our Islamic history and other civilisations as well. Ask yourself: “When was the last time you were alone?” I mean truly alone! No Internet, No iPod, No TV, no Phone Call/SMS, no people. Just you & Allah. I don’t think any of us have had such an experience, but can you imagine it?</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Did you ever wonder if there was a purpose behind Prophet Muhammad’s solitude in the Mountain of Light in the Cave of Heraa BEFORE he received revelation? Did you ever wonder about the the purpose we’re encouraged to do i’tikaaf in the last 10 days of Ramadan? I read somewhere – can’t remember anymore where – that solitude is the first step to spiritual ascension. If you want to stay closer to Allah, you need to start taking time out and be alone with Him.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">How is it done?</strong></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><span style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: underline; ">Preparation before the Journey</span><br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">The next question is how do you do it? how can you have a truly beneficial time-out. I’ve alluded to some ideas/tools in the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ks0k33af0eg&feature=player_embedded" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">weekly naseeha</a>, here they are again with some extra points.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Firstly, you need to make a conscious decision of allocating some time out time for yourself & prepare for it; Inform those near you from family and close friends that you’re planning this journey and explain the reasons for them. Decide whether you’ll go on an actual journey (a trip to a different part of town, city, country) or if you’ll simply be locking yourself in your room/garden/mosque for some timeout time.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Decide how long will it be; I would recommend a minimum of 2 hours and a maximum of 3 days in order to be balanced in everything else. Remember, timeout is not a selfish endeavour for you to “pamper” yourself and just “run away from everything”, it’s a thought provoking critical exercise for you to be a better person. Your family/friends should notice an “improvement” in you as a person when you come back.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">The next step is to ensure you have the right tools for it. Leave any distractions behind: Laptops, iPods, DVD players, even books/magazines which don’t benefit. Just take the essential: a Journal to write your thoughts, a dictaphone if you don’t like writing and prefer recording your thoughts, lots of Pens, A copy of the Quran (along with its translation) as your ultimate guide in this journey, and perhaps 1 powerful and beneficial book you really want to contemplate on, e.g. A Book of Hadeeth, Seerah, some of the well-known thought-provoking classical Islamic books that truly open up new insights for your life…etc.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">During the journey,</strong></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><span style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: underline; ">Observe yourself</span>. Notice yourself when you’re happy, notice yourself when you’re anxious/sad. Think about the thought process that goes through your mind to trigger these thoughts. Record your thoughts/write them down.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><span style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: underline; ">Review your life</span>: Review aspect of your life. You can use the lifewheel to help and observe the 8 slices of life and on a scale of 1-10 how well developed you’re in each one. The parts you’re now well-developed, think of action plans, things you can do immediately when you come back and short/term, and long-term goals. Look at your health, your family life, your career, your Islam, your community work.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><span style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: underline; ">Pandora’s box: </span>Assessing everything in your life makes you dig really deep to things which you’ve hidden or never speak about; some people will find this painful to do and would rather not do it, but my advice here is to try and “plough” through them and resolve them within. The aim here is not to open the pandora’s box of past mistakes/nightmares, but simply resolve things you have “kept inside” and never had a chance to look back at them so that you can move on with your life. The question you’re asking is not “What went wrong?” rather it’s “What can I do about it now?”. Taking action should be the key word.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Action, Action, Action</strong><br style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; ">Make sure that all your thoughts result into action and are not simply ideas/thoughts with no actionable outcome. And an action needs to specific; claiming that “I’ll start pray tahajjud from now on” is not an action statement but a goal. An action statement would be a series of physical steps you can take once you get home that help you achieve your goal.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">With your thoughts in your journal/dictaphone, and the actions clearly specified. It’s time to enjoy the rest of your time in time-out and prepare for the journey home. You’ll be surprised how much you miss your home and miss your family/friends when you’re away even for a short while. Make sure you let those who are close to you know what you’ve learnt so that they help you get closer to your life of self-development.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Even once in a lifetime, the above time-out can be beneficial, but doing it constantly whenever you feel trapped and not sure how to move ahead in your life is a very beneficial thing. Remember, one of the most important positives of time-out is to help you self-develop, and as ProductiveMuslims, we don’t just self-develop, but we self-develop ourselves into a life dedicated for the sake of Allah inshaAllah.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; 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background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1042" title="How to Stop yourself from Tab Hopping" src="http://www.productivemuslim.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/How-to-Stop-yourself-from-Tab-Hopping.jpg" alt="How to Stop yourself from Tab Hopping How to Stop yourself from Tab Hopping" width="300" height="420" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 1.5em; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; float: left; " />You know the drill: Open your e-mail, click on a couple of links, your browser pops up with some interesting articles, you read them, find and click on more links on the side bar, jump to Facebook to let your friends know about this awesome article you came across, jump to twitter to do the same, whilst at twitter you find some interesting tweets with some more links, you click on those, you get to more interesting articles… [to be continued]</em></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">I can see you sulking behind your computer screen feeling guilty about the above, not to worry, it’s a common behaviour, and I admit that I sometimes I fall prey to the above mindless surfing. Yes, Abu Productive falls into the above trap! But…the key is to catch yourself before the hours pass and you have no idea where they went. More importantly, the key is to redirect your purposeless surfing to a purposeful research/study/read.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">We need to understand that the jump from tab to tab is our attempt to feed our pleasure senses in our brains with ‘mini-surprises’. Because the internet never failed to deliver a constant stream of such amusing news, it’s so addictive to find yourself constantly trying to look for the most recent, hilarious, or moving article or video clip you can come across online.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">So how does one stop this mindless surfing?</strong></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">1. Rather than trying to totally abolish it, <strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">control it</strong>. Give yourself 10 minutes of mindless surfing for every 90 minutes of work you do. Note: You <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">must</em> do 90 minutes of pure work first though.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><span id="more-1041" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "></span></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">2. Before you log online, <strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">make sure you know exactly what you want to get done</strong>, and write that on a post-it note and stick it on your computer. That way every time you’re wandering aimlessly online and you forget what you were looking for in the first place, a quick glance at the note will remind you why you went online in the first place.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">3. If you’re bored at home, and really feel like doing nothing but surfing the web, <strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">try to think of interesting topics you always wanted to research</strong> but never found time for, e.g. some answers to fatwa questions you had in mind, or books on certain topics you want to know more about – just don’t allow yourself to drown in 20 open tabs with no benefit! Also, you could try picking up a book about Islam the next time you feel like learning new stuff online.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[continuing our story…]</em></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">So you arrive at those interesting articles, on an interesting site called<a href="http://productivemuslim.com/" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">ProductiveMuslim.com</a>, and you come across this article and write a nice comment below and turn off the internet to focus on your work!</em></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; 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border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">from the website:</em><a href="http://www.productivemuslim.com/how-to-stop-yourself-from-tab-hopping/" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em; text-align: -webkit-auto; ">http://www.productivemuslim.com/how-to-stop-yourself-from-tab-hopping/</a></p></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-3079663729594205222012-01-05T17:00:00.000-08:002012-01-05T17:02:12.962-08:009 Mistakes Unproductive People Make<div class="headline_area" style="padding-top: 0px; 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outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><div style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><div style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">I’ve often wondered what makes people successful. What is it that motivates them to want more, to be more? Is there a secret recipe for success? So in my quest to find these answers, I’ve read many books that talk about the keys to unlocking a successful life, and I’ve found a general theme: successful people are PRODUCTIVE people!<img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1540" title="9 Mistakes Unproductive People Make" src="http://www.productivemuslim.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/9NumberNineInCircle.png" alt="9NumberNineInCircle 9 Mistakes Unproductive People Make" width="280" height="280" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 1.5em; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; float: left; " /></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">They are the proverbial ‘go getters’ who don’t just sit around and bide their time, waiting for something to happen or for things to change. They are creative and innovative in their thinking, and they know that one of the main ingredients to being successful is working smarter, not harder.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Unproductive people seem trapped in a world that is moving in slow motion. For the majority of ‘unproductives’ out there, there are common mistakes, and while they try desperately to sever the bonds of lethargy that keep them prisoner, life swiftly passes them by as they watch helplessly through the rear-view mirror.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">While the literary market is flooded with millions of books and manuals which serve as excellent references to leading a productive, successful life, I think that, as Muslims, our most essential references lie in the Qur’an, the Sunnah and the Hadith.</p><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><span id="more-1539" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "></span></h2><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Mistake #1: Procrastination and Laziness</strong></h2><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">“Procrastination is the thief of time” – indeed it is! Many times we put things off because we’re tired or just don’t feel like it. These are all tell-tale signs of laziness, and unfortunately the more we procrastinate, the lazier we become. The Quran mentions repeatedly the issue of procrastination: <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“Until, when death comes to one of them, he says: “My Lord! Send me back so that I may do good in that which I have left behind”<a href="http://quran.com/23/99-100" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[23:99-100]</a>.</em> The time for doing is NOW! Those who procrastinate and waste precious time are doing themselves a grave injustice. Time is an Amaanah (gift given in trust) from Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala), so use it wisely! Laziness is an unbecoming characteristic of a Muslim – rid yourself of it, Insha’Allah. Ask Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) to remove this vice. Even the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings upon Him) would often pray, <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“O Allah! I seek Your protection from anxiety and grief, from incapacity and laziness, from stinginess and cowardice, and from the burden of debt and domination of people.”</em> [Bukhari]</p><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Mistake #2: Ingratitude to Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala)</strong></h2><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">How often do we thank Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) for all that He has given us? Unproductive people are so focused on the things they desire that they overlook the bounties that He has bestowed upon them. <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“O Mankind, remember the favour of Allah upon you. Is there any creator other than Allah who provides for you from the heaven and the earth? There is no deity except Him, so how are you deluded?”</em> <a href="http://quran.com/35/3" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[35:3]</a> Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) has granted us countless blessings, lest we forget! His promise to the believers is that He will increase favours upon those who are grateful to Him:<em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, ‘If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favour]; but if you deny, indeed My punishment is severe.”</em> [<a href="http://quran.com/14/7" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">14:7]</a> Try to write down five things each day, that you are truly grateful to Allah for; soon you’ll find that your list far exceeds just five things!</p><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Mistake #3: Arrogance in prayer</strong></h2><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Human beings have not come into existence by their own accord. Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala), in His infinite wisdom, has created man to worship Him and to work righteousness on this Earth; <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“I created not the Jinns and mankind except to worship me.”</em> <a href="http://quran.com/51/56" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[51:56]</a>. Nothing can ever be, except by the Divine Decree of the Almighty. We cannot expect to do things on our own without saying “Insha’Allah” (if Allah wills).<em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">”And never say of anything, ‘I shall do such and such thing tomorrow. Except (with the saying): ‘If Allah wills!’ and remember your Lord when you forget.”</em> <a href="http://quran.com/18/23" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[18:23]</a> Therefore, it is the duty of a Muslim to pray to Allah, to seek sincerely and to remain hopeful of the mercy of Allah. You can’t do it on your own – turn to Allah, in Him is our ultimate refuge.</p><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Mistake #4: Lack of responsibility and ownership</strong></h2><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Part of a Muslim’s fundamental beliefs is Qadr (Divine Decree), but we need to take responsibility at some point, for our actions. Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) has given man the gift of reasoning and choice, <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“He giveth wisdom unto whom He will, and he unto whom wisdom is given, he truly hath received abundant good. But none remember except men of understanding”</em> <a href="http://quran.com/2/269" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[2:269]</a>; and therefore man knows the difference between right and wrong. On the Day of Accountability (Youmul Hisaab), we will all be questioned as to our deeds and actions, as well as how we have spent our time.</p><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Mistake #5: A dwindling desire to seek knowledge</strong></h2><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">To become successful, you need to possess some type of skill, and this means an active pursuit in acquiring knowledge. It is narrated in al-Bukhari that the Prophet (peace and blessings upon Him) has said, <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“Whoever follows a path in the pursuit of knowledge, Allah will make a path to Paradise easy for him.”</em> It is thus the responsibility of a Muslim to seek beneficial knowledge, <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“And say: My Lord! Increase me in knowledge”</em> <a href="http://qura.com/20/114" target="_blank" class="broken_link" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: line-through; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[20:114]</a>, and to pass it on to others, as this will benefit him in Akhira. Once people lose their desire to learn new things, the battle is as good as lost.</p><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Mistake #6: “I wish I may, I wish I might”</strong></h2><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Wishing doesn’t make it so! Waiting for something to change without making an effort is a futile exercise. In order to break the vicious cycle of unproductiveness, you need to do things differently. Einstein said “<em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is insanity</em>” – take risks, do things differently. Nothing will change unless YOU do! <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“Truly, Allah does not change the condition of a person until they change what is in themselves”</em> <a href="http://quran.com/13/11" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[13:11]</a>.</p><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Mistake # 7: Holding on to regrets</strong></h2><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Let it go! <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“And whoever does a wrong or wrongs himself, but then seeks forgiveness from Allah, he will find Allah forgiving and merciful”</em> <a href="http://quran.com/4/110" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[4:110]</a>. The past is over and Allah does not want you to dwell in it. Allah is ar-Rahmaan (the Forgiving), ar-Raheem (the Merciful). <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“Say: O My Servants who have transgressed against their own souls, despair not of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful”</em> <a href="http://quran.com.39/53" target="_blank" class="broken_link" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: line-through; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[39:53]</a>. Mistakes happen to teach us a lesson – take the lesson and move on. A common denominator among unproductive people is their inability to move forward once they have hit a stumbling block. Pick yourself up and keep moving.</p><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Mistake # 8: Purpose</strong></h2><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">Many unproductives wander aimlessly through life, without the slightest inclination of what their purpose on this earth is. Snap out of it! Ask yourself why you are here. Surely, Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) does not create without purpose; He has placed you here for a very specific reason. Your challenge is to find that purpose. Don’t waste precious moments on trivialities, rather seek out things that will earn you the pleasure of Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) and bring you closer to Him.</p><h2 style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 1.25em; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.2em; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Mistake # 9: Fear of hard work</strong></h2><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">There are no shortcuts on the road to success. Man must work hard in order to achieve success, both in Dunya and Aakhira – <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“There is nothing for man but what he strives for”</em> <a href="http://quran.com/53/39" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[53:39]</a>. Both physical and intellectual labour are recognized in Islam.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">So work hard – Allah has ordained it for you! <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">”As to those who believe and work righteousness, Allah will pay them (in full) their reward; but Allah loveth not those who do wrong.”</em><a href="http://quran.com/3/57" target="_blank" style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(198, 103, 23); border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">[3:57]</a>.</p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; ">I hope these words will inspire you to make the changes necessary in your life, Insha’Allah. Let go of negative thoughts and rid yourself of bad habits. Find your purpose and make every minute worthwhile. <em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">“Know the true value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness, no laziness, no procrastination: never put off till tomorrow what you can do today”</em> – Lord Chesterfield</p></div></div></div><div style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><div style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><strong style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">About the Author</strong></p><div style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: justify; "><em style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; font-size: 14px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; ">Faiza Dean is a vibrant young professional – her field of specialization is adult learning and she is employed as a Learning and Development Consultant for a multi-national company based in South Africa. She is currently completing a degree in Applied Psychology through the University of South Africa (UNISA). She holds qualifications in Project Management and Business Administration and apart from studying part-time, is passionate about her family, friends and good food! Faiza’s motto is PURPOSE and in an effort to fulfill her purpose in life and give back to her community, she offers voluntary counseling on a no-charge basis; this also includes career guidance to high-school students.</em></p></div></div></div></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-92111308871845398342012-01-03T07:28:00.000-08:002012-01-03T07:34:40.752-08:00Azam Tahun Baru<div style="text-align: left;">Assalammualaikum...</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/6oxwgkd6lno" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre; "> </span>Kawan2 selamat tahun baru 2012... Pada tahun baru ini doakan diri saya yang hina ini agar sentiasa mendahului Allah dalam apa jua perkara yang saya lakukan. Saya berharap misi untuk meraih cintaNya akan diperbaharui dari tahun ke tahun dari segi niat dan amalan.. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Ya Allah bantulah hambaMu yang lemah ini... Tempatkan daku, kedua ibubapa ku, keluargaku, mereka yang berhak ke atasku, jiran tetangga ku, rakan taulan ku dan muslimin muslimat di tempat yang mulia disisi Mu... Kerana Engkau yang Maha Pengampun, Maha Pemurah dan Maha Penyayang... Aminnnn....</div></span></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-48646823436901922822011-12-16T09:00:00.000-08:002011-12-16T09:26:06.317-08:00Saya perlukan supplemen 'Mujahadah'<div style="text-align: left;">Assalammualaikum...</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Alhamdulillah, Allah bagi saya ruang dan waktu untuk melayari internet, mendengar ceramah. Kadang-kala kita tahu sesuatu perkara tetapi disebabkan kelalaian kita sering melupainya. Jadi kita perlukan sesuatu bagi menjadi peringatan buat diri kita. Saya letak satu ceramah yang memberi kesan dan membuatkan saya berfikir panjang...</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/PsLTDW8ws_Q" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Saya perlukan supplemen 'mujahadah' untuk memberi kekuatan menjaga perhubungan antara lelaki dan perempuan. Mencegah lebih baik daripada mengubati. Mungkin saya belum bercinta tapi persahabatan yang akrab dengan kawan2 lelaki kadangkala boleh menimbulkan salah faham. Saya ingin menjalani kehidupan mengikut syariat yang ditentukan Allah. Tapi saya tak tahu mana nak bermula kerana saya tak dapat menahan rasa bersalah yang bersarang dalam jiwa saya ini sekian lama... </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Wallahu'alam...</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-7719865790479858212011-12-11T06:53:00.000-08:002011-12-11T07:33:49.695-08:00Islamik Processor...<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-P1rIcw_pXVI/TuTMJFTp0JI/AAAAAAAAAWk/bAPrY9zjdYI/s1600/baby%2Blistening%2Bto%2Bmusic%2B%25282%2529.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 205px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-P1rIcw_pXVI/TuTMJFTp0JI/AAAAAAAAAWk/bAPrY9zjdYI/s320/baby%2Blistening%2Bto%2Bmusic%2B%25282%2529.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684893086063906962" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span">Assalammualaikum... saya tengah melayari majalah Gen Q isu no. 4.. ini adalah beberapa pengisian yang saya ingin kongsikan sebab SubhanAllah, isi sangat sempoi tapi mendalam maknanya...</span><div><br /></div><div>1. Jika kita marah- TOPUP wuduk untuk menyejukkan jiwa.</div><div><br /></div><div>2. Jika kita bingung- KLIK doa agar tenang hati.</div><div><br /></div><div>3. Jika kita dipuji- RELOAD syukur supaya tidak alpa.</div><div><br /></div><div>4. Jika kita gagal- DOWNLOAD usaha untuk memberi semangat.</div><div><br /></div><div>5. Jika kita kecewa- RESTART tenaga agar sentiasa sedar.</div><div><br /></div><div>6. Jika kita bersedih- SELECT ibubapa untuk meluahkan perasaan.</div><div><br /></div><div>7. Jika kita berdosa- UNDO perangai itu dan bersolat taubat.</div><div><br /></div><div>8. Jika kita berdendam- DELETE buruk sangka supaya bersih hati.</div><div><br /></div><div>9. Jika kita berbohong- BACKSPACE kata-kata untuk memperbetulkan keadaan.</div><div><br /></div><div>10. Jika kita buat maksiat- REGISTER SOFTWARE sikap baru dan bertaubat nasuha...</div><div><br /></div><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-FIwMNnZE5dI/TuTKLWuaFCI/AAAAAAAAAWY/arLs2-vjrDI/s1600/cute_baby_boy_mobile-normal.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-FIwMNnZE5dI/TuTKLWuaFCI/AAAAAAAAAWY/arLs2-vjrDI/s320/cute_baby_boy_mobile-normal.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684890926076007458" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span">Jom kita ctrl sesetengah dialog yang dah biasa kita sebut dan shift kepada dialog moden yang lebih berpahala... ^_^</span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">ctrl <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre; "> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span>shift</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Pergh... gempak giler...<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> </span>SubhanAllah</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">OMG (oh my God)... <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span>Ya Allah</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Terbaik...<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> </span>Alhamdulillah</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Ok...orait...<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> </span>InsyaAllah</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Cilakak...<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span>MasyaAllah</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Ellemak...Lupa lak... <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> </span>Allahumasolli 'ala Muhammad</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Arghh...pening...<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span>Astaghfirullah</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Eeee...teruknya...<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span>Na'uzubillah</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Opocot...<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> </span>Allahu Akbar</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Hek eleh...<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> </span>La ilaha illallah</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Wassalam....=)</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-33237307548133193012011-12-04T06:23:00.000-08:002011-12-04T06:55:26.360-08:00Muhasabah Cinta...<div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-OMSaz4CJIng/TtuFHJYgOXI/AAAAAAAAAWA/hZVnxUk4dnY/s1600/images%2B%25287%2529.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><span class="Apple-style-span"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 259px; height: 194px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-OMSaz4CJIng/TtuFHJYgOXI/AAAAAAAAAWA/hZVnxUk4dnY/s320/images%2B%25287%2529.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5682281712682285426" /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div></span></a><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><u><br /></u></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Assalammualaikum semua...</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Waktu tgh menjelajah FB saya terjumpa satu shout out di Aku Islam yang berjaya membuatkan saya tersenyum..</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-style-span">Hehe.. Comel~~ Bacalah yer saya dah copy paste di bawah ni..</span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div>♥ KISAH CINTA ORANG MUDA REMAJA ♥</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;"><br /></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"> </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Pakwe : sy cukup mecintai awk lbh dr segalanya</span> </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Makwe : betul ke?</span> </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Pakwe : semestinya betul dan tiada keraguaanya lg sygku</span> </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Makwe : buktinye?</span> </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Pakwe : lautan api sanggup sy redah</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Makwe : waa awk tahu ke lautan api tuu ape?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Pakwe : x,nape?</span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br />Makwe : kalau awk nak masuk neraka(lautan api) pergilah seorang seorang sy tak nak,kan lebih indah awk cakap "</span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "> sy sanggup menikahi awk demi cinta kita kerana ALLAH "</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">p/s : Bercakaplah megikut kemampuan bkn mengikut kemahuan (^^,)</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /><br />- Naurah Amalina Al-hanzalah</span></span><div><div style="text-align: center;"><u><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></u></div><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-UFWhJCjpOXo/TtuEZuVHheI/AAAAAAAAAVo/inGosKwHFFQ/s1600/images%2B%25284%2529.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 206px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-UFWhJCjpOXo/TtuEZuVHheI/AAAAAAAAAVo/inGosKwHFFQ/s320/images%2B%25284%2529.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5682280932326213090" /></a></span><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div></div><div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre; "> </span>Sememangnya jatuh yang tiada simpati punya jatuh adalah jatuh cinta.. boleh berlaku di mana-mana, bila-bila </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">masa dan pada sesiapa pun.. Bila jatuh cinta mood dan perasaan tu senang naik turun macam roller-coaster..</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Jadi,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">kita kenalah muhasabah cinta tu setiap masa supaya kita berupaya mengawal diri dan dalam ketenangan. Takdelah </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">nak resah gelisah jer... ^_^</span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 186px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-POvSj37iUyM/TtuEQsubvUI/AAAAAAAAAVc/BpaMe8KXEPc/s320/images%2B%25283%2529.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5682280777276702018" /></span></div><div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre; "> </span>Ya Allah semoga hati ku ini sentiasa dalam jagaan MU... Amin...</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><br /></span></span></div><img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-3VdAISwNYqs/TtuFlYZRuSI/AAAAAAAAAWM/Psi9-6SPGlk/s320/images%2B%25288%2529.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5682282232108136738" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 259px; height: 194px; " /></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div></div></div></div></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-17439314433235893722011-11-30T07:30:00.000-08:002011-11-30T07:57:23.106-08:00Sebuah janji..<iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/pfGnqZQHcvk" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe><br /><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Assalammualaikum...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Apa khabar semua? Saya baru sejam yg lepas balik dari double syif.. Seronok bila dapat bekerja setelah bercuti hampir seminggu.. ^_^V Yang paling saya seronok sangat ni, esok ulangtahun yang pertama saya jadi jururawat.. Alhamdulillah... Setahun bekerja sebagai jururawat sangat bermakna bagi saya... Tak tahu macam mana nak terangkan pada semua, tapi saya benar-benar rasa gembira..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Tapi pekerjaan menjadi jururawat adalah separuh masa saja.. Tanpa kita semua sedari kita adalah hamba Allah sepenuh masa... Setiap lima kali sehari kita berjanji padaNya.. Bila membaca doa Iftitah dengan penuh pengertian dan kefahaman cukup menyedarkan saya betapa dalam janji yang saya buat itu:</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Bacaan Dalam rumi : -</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "> </span></div><br /><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Allahu Akbaru kabiraw</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "> walhamdu lillahi kathiraw</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "> wasubhanallahhi bukratau waasila.</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "> Wajjahtu wajhia lillazi fataras sama wati wal ardh</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "> hanifam muslimaw wama ana minal musyrikin.</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "> Inna solati wanusuki wamahyaya wammamati lillahi rabbil'alamin.</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "> La syarikalahu wabiza lika umirtu </b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(11, 83, 148); text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">wa ana minal muslimin.</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; "><br /></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Maksudnya :-</div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Allah Maha Besar sebesar-besarnya. </b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Dan puji-pujian bagi Allah sebanyak-banyaknya.</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "> </b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Dan maha suci Allah siang dan malam. </b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Kuhadapkan mukaku, kepada yang menjadikan langit dan bumi,</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "> aku cenderung lagi berserah kepada Allah dan bukanlah aku dari golongan orang-orang yang menyekutukan Allah.</b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "> Sesungguhnya sembahyangku, ibadatku, hidupku dan matiku kuserahkan hanya pada Allah tuhan seru sekelian alam. </b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Sekali-kali tidaklah aku menyekutukanNya Dan dengan demikian aku ditugaskan, </b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></b></div><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: blue; text-align: center; "><b style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">dan aku adalah dari golongan orang-orang Muslim (Islam).</b></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Sejujurnya, tika bekerja saya selalu mengingatkan diri rezeki yang saya terima ini milik Allah.. Kadangkala saya takut jika dalam semakin 'terer' bekerja timbul rasa ujub di hati. Jika pangkat diberikan tinggi mula ada rasa riak. Kadangkala pekerjaan saya ini melalaikan saya dari melakukan solat mahupun amalan wajib yang lain. Mengurangkan saya dari melakukan amal soleh... Nauzubillah...</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">'Ya Allah berikan keberkatan kepada rezeki dan pekerjaan ku ini, Sesungguhnya Engkaulah Maha Pemberi Rezeki lagi Maha Pemurah... Ameen~'</span></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-65737710002828250602011-11-28T21:04:00.000-08:002011-11-28T22:17:34.537-08:00kesunyian dan kesepian itu...<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jnLhBNor7KI/TtR3GCO2HXI/AAAAAAAAAVQ/cXQDgRnCMrs/s1600/lonely-child-girl-looking-out-window-J210-11-664.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 262px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jnLhBNor7KI/TtR3GCO2HXI/AAAAAAAAAVQ/cXQDgRnCMrs/s320/lonely-child-girl-looking-out-window-J210-11-664.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5680295975583096178" /></a><br />Assalammualaikum... <div><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Sejak akhir2 ni rasa suka nak menulis. Habis kertas2 di rumah berconteng.. Hmm.. Ni tulis kat blog pula.. Saya baru je lepas menonton WHI di TV3. Tertarik dengan tajuk 'sindrom kesunyian' yang dibincangkan. Tambahan lagi seorang kawan saya ni selalu mengeluh rasa kesunyian. Rasa bosan. Lebih baik jadi lembu; boleh dikorbankan... =.=" (saya pun tak tahu macam mana nak pujuk kawan yang seorang ni)..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Sebenarnya sunyi tu bila tiada orang disisi kita. Bila di persekitaran kita duduk seorang2.. Tapi bila kita duduk kat tempat yang ramai orang, berinteraksi dengan orang ramai tapi kita masih terasa keseorangan itu namanya kesepian. Jadi maksudnya yang feeling lonely tu adalah kesepian. Kesepian berlaku bila kita rasa dipinggirkan, ditinggalkan, rasa keseorangan. Dan emosi kesepian ni kalau tak diuruskan dengan betul boleh membawa kepada kemurungan. (Tetiba terasa macam ahli psikologi pula... huhu.. sebenarnya nilah definisi yang diberi dalam WHI tadi..).</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Dalam kehidupan seharian, kita ada banyak tugas yang perlu dilakukan. Tugas untuk menguruskan diri sendiri, tugas menguruskan keluarga sama ada keluarga induk mahupun keluarga yang lebih luas lagi, tugas dalam kerjaya kita dan tugas kepada komuniti.. Makanya dalam kesibukan menguruskan tugas2 tersebut akan berlaku interaksi, komunikasi dan transaksi sesama ahli keluarga, rakan sekerja, sahabat handai dan masyarakat yang berlaku di sekitar kita. Jadi, kalau kita kata dalam hidup ini kita terasa sepi tu; dari sudut mana sepi tu datang???</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Yang memberi makna sepi dan sunyi itu adalah bergantung pada seseorang individu. Bagi seseorang yang hidupnya sudah biasa pergi dan balik kerja sahaja kemudian rehat menonton tv di rumah, itu baginya bukan satu kesunyian dan kesepian. Tapi bagi yang biasa bersosial dan lepak di luar bersama rakan-rakan; pergi dan balik kerja itu adalah kehidupan yang sangat sangat sunyi dan sepi. Sepi itu datang kerana sifat seseorang manusia yang memerlukan teman untuk berbicara, berkasih sayang dan teman untuk memberi prihatian. Kawan untuk berkongsi suka dan duka. sharing is caring, loving and one part of companionship...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Kadang-kadang menyendiri untuk menyediakan satu ruang dan persekitaran yang sunyi tu adalah normal. Kerana sunyi itu lebih membuahkan hasil, mendapatkan ilham, menjadikan seseorang lebih puitis dan lebih produktif. Kesunyian itu juga kadang-kadang perlu untuk mencari ketenangan dan muhasabah diri. Maka kesunyian dan kesepian bukan sahaja bersifat negatif tetapi juga ada sudut yang positif..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Bagi mereka yang mengalami kesepian yang bersifat negatif perlulah mencari punca kenapa mereka berasa demikian. Apa yang memaknakan kesepian dalam diri mereka.. Kerana kita semua perlu bertanggungjawab terhadap emosi yang kita sendiri rasakan. Selepas itu apa langkah2 yang perlu dilakukan dalam mengatasi konflik dalam diri; sama ada menghadapi kesepian, hidup dalam kesepian atau melarikan diri daripada kesepian tu.. u choose ur way..boleh juga dengan cara mencari hobi baru yang menjadikan kita lebih 'hidup'..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Saya akhiri entry saya dengan ayat2 dalam Al-Quran kerana Al-Quran itu adalah penawar bagi jiwa2 yang merasa kekosongan:</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div>Surat Ar Ra’ad ayat 28 : “(yaitu) orang-orang yang beriman dan hati mereka menjadi </div><div>tenteram dengan mengingat Allah. Ingatlah hanya dengan mengingati Allah-lah hati menjadi </div><div>tenteram”</div><div><br /></div><div><div>Surat Al Ahzab ayat 43 : “Dialah yang memberi rahmat kepadamu dan malaikatNya </div><div>(memohonkan ampunan untukmu), supaya Dia mengeluarkan kamu dari kegelapan kepada cahaya (yang terang). Dan adalah Dia Maha Penyayang kepada orang-orang yang beriman”.</div></div></div><div><br /></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2483438387197483046.post-55865701268353924902011-11-28T09:08:00.000-08:002011-11-28T10:09:29.592-08:00Mencari v/s Menjadi<div style="text-align: justify;">Assalammualaikum semua...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Salam Maal Hijrah. Selamat tahun baru 1433 Hijrah! Alhamdulillah 26 hb aritu, kazen saya selamat dinikahkan dengan jejaka pilihan hatinya. Dan seperti biasa soalan2 yang sama berputaran seperti perakam suara.. Aduyai.. Bilanyer Nina nak kahwin??</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Hmm.. Memang seronok tengok orang dapat naik pelamin. Saya tumpang gembira. Saya suka dengar paluan kompang, tengok hiasan pelamin, upacara berinai, menepung tawar, acara fav kat Johor-tol, fesyen baju pengantin dan yang paling saya suka- makan nasi minyak! Nyum2.. Memang seronok dapat pergi kenduri kahwin. Bila semakin dewasa yang menjadi kureng best bila banyak sangat soalan yang jawapannya sendiri pun kita tiada..</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Secara jujurnya, saya tak cari pun calon suami tu. Tak tahu nak cari macam mana. Macam mana rupa, macam mana sifat dan keistimewaan yang mesti ada pada seorang lelaki tu. Tapi kita kenalah percaya pada janji Allah yang termaktub dalam Al-Quran dan sememangnya semua orang sedia maklum;</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"> <span class="Apple-style-span">A<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">llah S.W.T berfirman, “Perempuan yang jahat untuk lelaki yang jahat dan lelaki yang jahat untuk perempuan yang jahat, perempuan yang baik untuk lelaki yang baik dan lelaki yang baik untuk perempuan yang baik.” (an-Nur’:26)</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Saya ni perangai kebudak2n; susahlah kalau dapat orang yang kebudak2n juga.. =.='' Memang comel tapi... Sebab tulah kena ubah perangai dulu baru boleh berangan nak kahwin. huhu.. Kalau nak orang yang jenis bertanggungjawab, kita kena jadi orang yang bertanggungjawab; nak orang yang memahami kita kena belajar faham orang dulu.. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Tapi susahnya nak ubah perangai, rasa macam berlakon pula.. Tapi takpe, mula-mula macam berlakon, nanti lama2 ianya akan jadi sebahagian diri kita.. Chaiyok2 Husna berusaha mematangkan diri, mendalami ilmu Agama dan ilmu alam rumah tangga.. Huhu.. Kalau Husna yang berumur 17 tahun berbicara soal kahwin konfem merah dah muka.. Yang umur 24 tahun ni dah tak tahu malu yer.. Tu maksudnya da mature sikit la tu.. Yezza! Hihi..</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Tahoma, Arial, 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif, Georgia, Courier, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 13px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div style="text-align: center;">"sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah nasib</div></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Tahoma, Arial, 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif, Georgia, Courier, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 13px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div style="text-align: center;">sesuatu kaum itu sehingga mereka sendiri mengubah nasib mereka….” </div></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Tahoma, Arial, 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif, Georgia, Courier, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 13px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div style="text-align: center;">-Surah Ar-Ra’ad, Ayat 11-</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Daripada surah di atas kita kenalah berusaha mencari jodoh kita juga sebenarnya. Seeloknya dilakukan atas landasan syariat iaitu menghantar perantara untuk merisik. Tapi orang sekarang ni memang sangat berani; face to face jer.. Ikut gaya omputih, will u marry me.. Kalau orang tu pemalu macam kita konfem kena reject; terkejut dowh.. Without any salam, and intro, and very sudden too... If antar perantara sesama jantina boleh juga akak yang jadi perantara tu wat slow talk, tak dela malu sangat. Betul x.. Agak2 la kalau nak bagitau isi hati pun.. Kalau tak nak orang lain tau, sekarang kan da canggih.. boleh tanya by mesej or e-mail.. Kalau yang masih mengekalkan cara tradisional, pos laju masih ada.. hantar surat.. (best gak sekali-sekala dapat surat =)... ) At least ada freedom di situ bila nak reply, ada masa untuk memikirkannya... sehari, dua hari, tak pun setahun, dua tahun... huhu.. tapi berisiko pula, takut tak sampai pada empunya diri.. hmmm.. Apa2 pun Selamat Berjaya bagi mereka yang masih single bercita2 BESAR menamatkan zaman bujangnya... </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">Wassalam...</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(77, 77, 79); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><br /></span></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/_5iAe9FUC_o" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe><br /></div>nurse husnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00562293016524017747noreply@blogger.com0